July 25, 2016
Don't settle for less. Don't settle for the boy who can't decide for himse...
Don't settle for less.
Don't settle for the boy who can't decide for himself and waits for his mommy. Don't settle for the forty year old who doesn't know what he wants. Don't settle for the fireman who seems right at the moment but is just not right. Don't settle for the soldier who is insecure with himself. Don't settle for the police officer who texts you only when he's bored. Don't settle for the male cabin crew who hugged you because he hugs all his girl friends.
Don't settle for anything lesser than you deserve. Wait. Wait a little longer. He'll come right through.
He will text you when he misses you and even when he doesn't. He will make decisions with you, together. He will send flowers even though you said you rather spend that money elsewhere because he knows you secretly want to receive flowers. He will stay up all night to hear you talk about the colleague who tried to bring you down but you eventually came out of it a winner. He will appreciate your guts and your tenacity instead of telling you to hide it. He will hug you from the back because he knows that is the best kind of hug. Also because you love back hugs the most.
In the meantime, search for yourself. Learn about yourself. Live with yourself.
When the right time comes, he will be there. He will love you the way you love. He will miss you just right. He will compliment you in every way that you deserve. He will see you bloom. He will understand everything that you stand for. He will appreciate your independence.
When the universe aligns, you will meet your soulmate and you will finally understand why you had to wait so long. You will thank yourself for not settling for less.
In the meantime, I'll keep on waiting. I shall not settle for less.